Your wedding is next week. You planned to hand watercolor the placecards, make the centerpieces, bake cookies for favors, wash the dog, get a manicure/pedicure/botox/tooth whitening, write your vows and close on a house.

You can’t. Period. Some of those things are details that would be lovely if you had a full staff, but you probably don’t. Take a minute to decide what you can chop off your agenda, and remember that your guests don’t know what you PLANNED to accomplish. They only know that you’ve planned a wonderful wedding with your New Jersey Wedding Officiant (smooth, huh?), a delicious reception, and most importantly, a day that celebrates your joy. That is really all that matters. No one will notice that you didn’t hot glue silk blossoms to the trees….