California has lifted the ban on same sex weddings, which is a wonderful benchmark that more states should imitate. I am very proud that New Jersey had made civil unions legal for years; we have a little more work to do, but at least some of the protections and privileges granted to “traditional” couples are now in place for same sex couples.

No one has the right to vote on a couple’s marriage; not relatives, not strangers. Marriage is between two people and their chosen community. And that’s all I have to say about that. Well, not ALL…..